You might have wondered why there have been so few updates recently on my blog. The answer is twofold a) my creative juices have gone into finishing off my book (DevOps for the Modern Enterprise) and b) earlier this year my son was born, which is the best possible reason to spend less time in front of the PC. As things are settling down I will start to write more frequently again, which brings me to today’s post: I have decided to write some blogs about my upcoming paternity leave, so you will see some less technical posts in between technical posts.
The reason I decided to do this is to encourage more fathers to take paternity leave and get them some honest first hand descriptions on how it plays out. I have learned over the last few months that many fathers have not taken paternity leave for many different reasons: career, company policies, being unsure what to expect as full time dad. So I decided to write about my experience.
I am about two weeks away from taking around three months off as full time dad. My son is 9 months old and he is a handful. I have heaps of respect for the work that my wife is doing to keep him on a schedule and look after him. The long nights of getting him back to sleep and looking after him during the days sound tough…soon I will know first hand how it is, something that so far has been limited to weekends when I don’t have to work.
You might wonder whether I am worried about what will happen at work when I am gone for such a long time and the truthful answer is “a little”. Of course there is that little voice in my head telling me that lots of important things will happen while I am gone and that I should really be there for it. But then I think of my incredible team that will cover for me when I am off and I know they will do a fantastic job. Over the last few months they already picked up a lot of the scope of work that I would usually deal with and have done great. My bosses are extremely supportive of me taking my paternity time and understand that things will be a little bit different for a period of time.
Until recently I thought that work (and potential career impacts) are the only things to worry about, but then I started to hear from mums and dads on how tough it can be to be the full time parent, the days where you only speak “baby language” and miss a meaningful conversation. The days when all hell breaks loose and you struggle to keep the baby fed and clean. The days when finding the time for a shower and a warm meal is a real challenge. The days when you had hardly any sleep and the little one wants his normal routine while you can hardly keep your eyes open. Phew…
Perhaps this gig is going to be tougher than I thought…but then I look at the little man and see him smile and I know I will enjoy the time no matter how hard it might be. Work will go on and I am sure I will catch-up when I am back. My team will do great and I will see my little man grow over the last 3 months of his first year in this world. I will keep you all posted how my paternity leave is playing out with regular blog posts.





Barry O’Reilly spoke about the Lean Enterprise – Overall a great and entertaining talk. The one thing that stood out to me was the “delivery gap” which just shows how bad companies are in evaluating themselves – and for that matter how bad people are evaluating themselves ( remember Dunning-Kruger effect).
Near religious wars have been fought over which IT product to choose for a project or business function. Should you use SalesForce, SAP or IBM? I am not a product person, but I have learned over time that just looking at the functionality is not sufficient anymore. It is very unlikely that an organisation will use the product As-Is and the application architecture the product is part of will continue to evolve. The concept of an end-state-architecture is just not valid anymore. Each component needs to be evaluated on the basis of how easy it is to evolve and replace. Which is why architecture and engineering play a much larger role than in the past. This puts a very different view on product choice. Of course the choice is always contextual and for each company and each area of business the decision might be different. What I can do though is to provide a Technology Decision Framework that helps you to think more broadly about technology choices. I wrote about DevOps tooling a while ago and you will see similar thinking in this post.

If you have been following my blog, you will know that I am disappointed on how little the cultural relationship between companies and their systems integrators is being discussed in blogs, articles and conference talks. As I am working for an SI I find this surprising. Most large organisations work with Sis, so why are we not talking about it? If we are serious about DevOps we should also have a DevOps culture with our SIs, shouldn’t we?



